My 'Unicorn'

This site is about my own personal journey. So in my writing about my journey I'm going to be introducing my own personal sayings. These are just some of the sayings that my girlfriends and I come up with to describe certain things. The first saying I want to introduce is that of 'Unicorn.'

The 'Unicorn' is a mythological creature that your mom always warned you about and the man your father told you would make you forget everything he ever taught you about men. Yep, the Unicorn is a man. He is the man that gives you the best sex you ever had. I'm talking about he's great at everything. The man knows how to make you climb walls, but in the end you know there is no possible way you can have a future with this man, but the loving is so good it's damn near impossible to get him out of your system. I'm talking about the man that knows your body better than you do. The man that teaches you something about yourself that you never knew. Yeah, that man.

The 'Unicorn' is the man that will never be your husband, but the truth of the matter is you really don't want him to be your husband. He is the man that women fight over. I never could understand why a woman would fight over a man until I ran across my 'Unicorn.' Not that I'm endorsing violence of any form, and I definitely will not ever co-sign fighting over a man, but I can say I completely understand.

It's just something about this man that makes you lose all of your common sense. All the things you've learned throughout life goes out the window when you encounter this man. Trust me, I've been there. My 'Unicorn' had me straight stupid. I can look back on some of things I've done and just wish I could go back in time and slap the hell out of myself.

But at the end of the day, I don't regret my experience with him at all. After all, it was definitely the best I ever had.